| Re: Fancy dress / impersonation of staff / disability issues. Posted by Chris from Nailsea at 20:47, 22nd November 2024 |      |
To expand and update this topic - from The Courier:
Outrage as disabled Dundee man, 27, told to remove stationmaster costume at Angus train event
Gareth Bell is a huge trains fan and has his own 'station' in his back garden. Picture: Paul Reid.
A Tayside family has hit out after a disabled “gentle giant” was asked to remove his fancy dress costume at a Thomas the Tank Engine event on health and safety grounds.
Mum Laurie Alexander said her 27-year-old son Gareth Bell – who has a rare neurogenetic disorder called Angelman Syndrome – dressed up as a station master to attend the event at Brechin’s Caledonian Railway on Saturday.
She said the family were shocked when they were told Gareth, who has a mental age of four, would have to remove his hat, jacket and tie because he was “impersonating a member of staff”.
Gareth Bell in his back garden.
Mrs Alexander, from Dundee, said her train enthusiast son was also told to sit away from all the other visitors before boarding for fear of mistaken identity.
“I’m totally broken and can’t stop crying about what happened,” she said. “Gareth has Angelman Syndrome and he’s a gentle giant. He is a toddler in a big man’s body. The man asked if Gareth could remove his hat, jacket and tie because he was impersonating a member of staff. I was also told he had to sit further along the platform away from all the other visitors. They blamed health and safety.”
Gareth in his shed.
Gareth eventually travelled on Thomas with his uniform left behind on the station bench.
Mrs Alexander said the experience was hugely upsetting. “Gareth has always loved trains and he adores Thomas,” she said. “I just wanted the ground to swallow me up and I thought I was going to start crying. But I kept my emotions in check because Gareth was unaware of what was happening. When I asked him to take off his costume he told me: ‘Bad mummy’.”
The Caley railway is extremely popular with families.
Dad Robert said his son recently went to Perth to see the Flying Scotsman while dressed as “Station Master Gareth”, without any difficulties.
“The staff there did everything they could to accommodate him and he even got to wave the train off from the station,” he said. “Gareth is six foot three and doesn’t look like he has learning difficulties but not everybody that is disabled is in a wheelchair. The situation could have been handled totally differently and it’s a real shame that it has come to this.”
The couple turned the shed in their garden into a station for Gareth who is a well-known figure in the Fintry community.
A spokesman for the volunteer-run Caledonian Railway apologised and has now invited Gareth back to Brechin to make amends. He said: “We would apologise for any upset that was caused which was never our intention. We are not here to single anybody out and this was a case of miscommunication between the two parties. We would like to clear the air and invite Gareth to join us next weekend at the station for a look around and a train ride.”
Angelman syndrome (AS) affects about one in 15,000 people, or about 500,000 individuals worldwide. Symptoms include severe intellectual disability, developmental disability, speaking problems, balance and movement problems, seizures, and sleep problems.
Gareth Bell is a huge trains fan and has his own 'station' in his back garden. Picture: Paul Reid.
A Tayside family has hit out after a disabled “gentle giant” was asked to remove his fancy dress costume at a Thomas the Tank Engine event on health and safety grounds.
Mum Laurie Alexander said her 27-year-old son Gareth Bell – who has a rare neurogenetic disorder called Angelman Syndrome – dressed up as a station master to attend the event at Brechin’s Caledonian Railway on Saturday.
She said the family were shocked when they were told Gareth, who has a mental age of four, would have to remove his hat, jacket and tie because he was “impersonating a member of staff”.
Gareth Bell in his back garden.
Mrs Alexander, from Dundee, said her train enthusiast son was also told to sit away from all the other visitors before boarding for fear of mistaken identity.
“I’m totally broken and can’t stop crying about what happened,” she said. “Gareth has Angelman Syndrome and he’s a gentle giant. He is a toddler in a big man’s body. The man asked if Gareth could remove his hat, jacket and tie because he was impersonating a member of staff. I was also told he had to sit further along the platform away from all the other visitors. They blamed health and safety.”
Gareth in his shed.
Gareth eventually travelled on Thomas with his uniform left behind on the station bench.
Mrs Alexander said the experience was hugely upsetting. “Gareth has always loved trains and he adores Thomas,” she said. “I just wanted the ground to swallow me up and I thought I was going to start crying. But I kept my emotions in check because Gareth was unaware of what was happening. When I asked him to take off his costume he told me: ‘Bad mummy’.”
The Caley railway is extremely popular with families.
Dad Robert said his son recently went to Perth to see the Flying Scotsman while dressed as “Station Master Gareth”, without any difficulties.
“The staff there did everything they could to accommodate him and he even got to wave the train off from the station,” he said. “Gareth is six foot three and doesn’t look like he has learning difficulties but not everybody that is disabled is in a wheelchair. The situation could have been handled totally differently and it’s a real shame that it has come to this.”
The couple turned the shed in their garden into a station for Gareth who is a well-known figure in the Fintry community.
A spokesman for the volunteer-run Caledonian Railway apologised and has now invited Gareth back to Brechin to make amends. He said: “We would apologise for any upset that was caused which was never our intention. We are not here to single anybody out and this was a case of miscommunication between the two parties. We would like to clear the air and invite Gareth to join us next weekend at the station for a look around and a train ride.”
Angelman syndrome (AS) affects about one in 15,000 people, or about 500,000 individuals worldwide. Symptoms include severe intellectual disability, developmental disability, speaking problems, balance and movement problems, seizures, and sleep problems.
I'm glad to read that the Caledonian Railway made amends for this unfortunate incident.
CfN.
| Fancy dress / impersonation of staff / disability issues. Posted by grahame at 15:08, 26th August 2019 | |
From The Courier
A Tayside family has hit out after a disabled “gentle giant” was asked to remove his fancy dress costume at a Thomas the Tank Engine event on health and safety grounds.
Mum Laurie Alexander said her 27-year-old son Gareth Bell – who has a rare neurogenetic disorder called Angelman Syndrome – dressed up as a station master to attend the event at Brechin’s Caledonian Railway on Saturday.
She said the family were shocked when they were told Gareth, who has a mental age of four, would have to remove his hat, jacket and tie because he was “impersonating a member of staff”.
Mum Laurie Alexander said her 27-year-old son Gareth Bell – who has a rare neurogenetic disorder called Angelman Syndrome – dressed up as a station master to attend the event at Brechin’s Caledonian Railway on Saturday.
She said the family were shocked when they were told Gareth, who has a mental age of four, would have to remove his hat, jacket and tie because he was “impersonating a member of staff”.
